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“Those who are in haram relationship, they say we are in love. What is real love? A real love is that you want your l
to be in jannah not in the Hell.
So he/she wont let you do anything that lead you to hell.When you love a person, you care about his/her hereafter.
Are you really in love or following the whisper of şeytan ? Think about it.”
By forbidding relationships outside marriage, Islam experiences a significantly lower incidence of those problems associated with societies that have a relaxed attitude to sex.
Islam places great importance upon the values of modesty and chastity on both men and women and, therefore, sex outside marriage is one of the biggest
sins that a Muslim can commit.
Indeed, the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم) said: “When two people are (illegally) together alone then the third is şeytan.” [Bukhari]
Muslims of opposite sexes are not permitted to be alone together before marriage, let alone have any physical contact.
Therefore, the trial and error approach to finding a suitable spouse, as practiced in the West, has no place in our society.
Physical relations can take place only within the security of a marriage.
“And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture before you,
when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers.” [Al-Maidah 5:5]
no matter how much you love someone or something, if it’s haram for you, give it up for the sake of Allah. He will replace it with something better.
you leave something for the sake of allah and think he will not replace it with better ..
“If you love someone, but not ready to propose to her (through her walee). Then love her in silence. Because your silence means you respect her, for not pursuing her to make a haram relationship.
Because your silence means you protect her heart. Because your silence is one of the proofs that you love her,means you respect your own self. The girl that you love is a person that ALLAH probably has chosen for you.”
“For every girl that says “I know its haram, but I love him” , think about this: If the person you loved suddenly died tomorrow, would you be comfortable with your relationship being the last thing that they are judged on ? …
If you allow them to get punished because of your love, then it is not truly love at all.
Love is selfless, love is caring, love is having mercy for each other . When you love someone you want the best for them.
The problem is that when you are in a haram relationship your love is not what is best for that person.